90 % out of 100%. We like to criticize others. 10% gives a good suggestions and appreciate other’s works

By :- Buddhi Chaudhary 

Appreciating the works and giving a good and possible suggestions to the starters is one of the greatest and easiest deeds a man can do. Even a Buddha did it. When a person couldn’t do meritorious deeds, meditation as well as other ordinary acts properly, he used to suggest him or her with proper methods. ‘Act well. Don’t act badly. Good brings you happiness. Bad brings you only suffering. Here. And, hereafter life.’

If a person act well, he would appreciate their works very much. When, venerable Sariputta would explain the Dhamma properly, he used to appreciate him expressing his feelings in front of the hundreds of monks. Even, he had given the names to all monks an accordance with their acts and skills. If a monk is skillful in preaching, he would name him as a best preacher. If a good explainer, he would name him as best explainer etc.

Modern people and societies are slightly different to the ancient teachings that our forefathers taught and showed us. Now a day, we love to criticize other’s works rather than appreciating or giving possible suggestions. For instance, when you want to read hundred books within a year, everybody will laugh at you rather than encourage. They will criticize, until, you lose the confidence rather than giving easy methods to read book a day. Studies explain that 90 % out of 100%. We like to criticize others. 10% gives good suggestions and appreciate other’s works.

            It is very important to develop the qualities of appreciating other’s works or giving possible-suggestions to the starters. It may be business planner. Hundred books reader. Writer. Runners. YouTubers. Bloggers. Depends on. There are hidden happiness within these sorts of acts.

Learn to appreciate other’s works. Give possible suggestions. Make them a person, they want to be. That will make them happy as well as, you will be happy mentally. ‘I support him so, he is.’