Love them first to get loved later

Buddhi Chaudhary

Parents, teachers, masters and relatives doubt in their children, pupils and students whether, they are going to love and support them back, when they grow up. “As you sow, thus as you get.” Same. As much as, you love and support your kids to grow up properly, thus amount of love you will receive from them later on.

Let me exemplifies with a story that will help you to understand how –

There was a kind, compassionate and intelligent monk in ancient China. He understood his pupils very much and provided every necessities, they needed. His pupils also loved him very much.

Being kids. It is normal to have desires to play sports. When the boys outside of the temple ground play basketball, football and volleyball, they would sneak through the hole and look them playing. Some pupils decided to steal from the temple ground and join the boys outside but, other pupils appreciate the honesty as a best policy.

The dishonest pupils jumped the temple and joined the boys to play sports.

The master learned the matters. He also learned that jumping out of the temple wall is difficult task. The pupils might get hurt. So, he decided support them. Every day, before pupils jump out of the temple ground, he would cover his body with blankets and bend by the wall. Pupils would put their one leg on his body and jump out of the wall easily.

Time passed on. Unknowingly, the master became old and feeble bodied. Pupils also grew up stronger and heavier. He couldn’t raise their weights like before. One day, when pupils were jumping the temple wall, he couldn’t control their weights. He fall down on the ground crying loudly. Pupils uncovered him surprisingly. The master told them all the secrets. Pupils felt guilty. They apologized and decided never to be dishonest to their master.

Ever since, they never did any mistakes. They loved their master very much till he passed away happily.

See?

Dear reader.

When you love someone very much, they give you back the same amount of love. Love them first. They will love you back later.