Gratitude

While living in the society, we are spending or living different sorts of life. Though the life would be celibacy or a life of laity, we are moving on towards some kinds of development with the different sorts of characteristic. The thoughts, that we accepted from the ancient time, one should be educated, self-disciplined, a person with the right views, right thoughts, and right livelihood, should be religious, social, continuously, we are practicing it until now. But this ancient exemplary and models an advices in the form of pragmatism, until, how long it will exist? This virtuous question, pinching and crushing our inner and outer feeling, we, ourselves should be asked and answer should be came from within us as well. It says that, where there is wisdom or knowledge, there is possibility of disciplines and where there are disciplines there is possibility of everything. (Jobs, money etc) 

We should be paid our gratitude or an artifact to the people, who helps and support us to goes up in our life. Whether, it is one's own father and mother, brother and sister, relatives, teachers and advisers, if they had done something valuable, merits or goodness for us, we should pay back our gracious and artifacts to them. We should be reminding it time to time as gratitude. But, ironically, we are forgetting this valuable tradition like crossing the river and forgetting the stick same side. As these Sanskrit words poem says ‘’Swartha Mulay Mantrasse Sawaha’’,, Consequently, selfishness, worthless lives, and bad news, while dominating the societies and countries, where there we are living, day by day, our affectionate-friendship, and deep relationship within it is getting down. In the place of gracious, now days, people are paying bloods as an artifact because, human being has became a living-animal-beast. 

Consequently, this days and ages, whenever, we blink our two eyes towards the social issues, family issues, religious issues, and educational issues all are filled with  corruption, cruelty, dishonesty, dishonor, evil, immorality, meanness, disadvantage, handicap, hindrance, loss, indecency and wickedness instead the goodness, friendliness, kindness, generosity, good-will, morality, grace, righteousness, honesty, superiority and virtues.  Among us, how many percent of people would be, who still is carrying it on these qualities?

‘’Kathannu Kathaveditabba’’ or a quality of being gratitude to the person who help us or a person with this quality is wise work and very hard and rare to find, the Buddha (Enlightened one) has preached too.  True the facts are, reminding the goodness that someone has done for us, whether, it is oldest or newest helps, it’s touch inner side and make us to feel glad, and happy. We called it as meritorious deeds. But we human beings are moving opposite ways. We think that I did for him these things and those things and made him to come this up. Uselessly, we recite our own qualities without giving any helps and make our mind and heart heavy. Heavy until, enabling to carry it out without contentment, instead, we become sad thinking that, he did not help me. He did not do this for me. He did not do for me that. We fill our heart and mind with unsatisfactory feelings and thoughts. Then we walk asking, where the happiness is? Where the peace is? We lament saying, ‘’Oh…My fate, I have no happiness. Where would be the happiness, if we walk the opposite ways leaving the happiness? Oh Dear………Reader. Ask yourself, where the happiness is?